After the upcoming nuptials, Mike and I will be heading to Spain for two weeks.
Apparently, the only thing that rivals the expense of a wedding, is the honeymoon!
I have to say, I was not completely prepared for the sticker shock that came with planning this trip. I’ve always done past travels on a shoe string budget; it’s pretty easy to be cheap in Ghana. However, as I plan this new trip with my hubby, I find myself completely unwilling to shack up in dorm-style hostels and eat granola bars for 2 out of 3 meals.
So, certain expenses come with those choices:
Airplane tickets for two — This one was hefty but we bought them many months ago so it doesn’t seem like a financial burden now.
Two weeks worth of hotels ranging from $50-$150 a night –Roughly $1,500
Meals — Unclear as of yet. Probably a lot. Have I mentioned that we’re foodies? We’re budgeting $2,500.
Car rental — It was important for us to take these two weeks to go on lots of adventures which means that we want to travel all over. That also means, realistically, a car rental. Roughly $500 for the 2 weeks.
We’ve got some money set aside for museum tickets etc. but our goals aren’t really to see all the “guide book” sights. Mostly we’ll be hiking, meandering, figuring out the agenda day-by-day.
In preparation – I needed good walking shoes ($70). I do mean “need”. This wasn’t just a good excuse to buy some new cutsie shoes. I also bought a cotton dress good for walking around and going out at night too (less of a need, but still, I categorize it as a honeymoon expense @ $50). Luckily Mike has had fewer needs!
During my “OH MY GOD I”M FREAKING OUT ABOUT MONEY” phases Mike is wonderful and says, “you know honey, we can cancel the honeymoon if we need to”
N-O, NO! That is not an option. One, we’d regret it. Two, we’ve already sunk money into the plane tickets. Three, I want to go!
We haven’t traveled abroad together before traveling is such a passion for both of us so I can’t imagine a world in which we don’t go on a honeymoon.
Obviously, all of those expenses add up – We aren’t going into any debt to cover them (or the wedding) but we will come back with significantly less in our savings.